Randy Cohen, the New York Times‘ Ethicist, says that it’s not OK to ask your fans to review you. He says that if you are getting negative reviews, you should suck it up. (Full story.)
It is absolutely OK to ask your fans to review you. It should be a fundamental part of your marketing program.
Here’s the reality:
Angry people write reviews. When we’re pissed off, we tell everyone. We yell and scream and post nasty reviews.
When we’re happy, we never do it. Do you ever wake up and say, “Today’s the day I tell the world that my dishwasher still works”? Have you posted more reviews for your favorite restaurants or the ones you hate? The happier we are, the less likely we are to have the urgent motivation to post a supportive review.
Your job as a word of mouth marketer is to ask your fans for help. Tell them you need them. Show your appreciation. Let them know that their support helps you continue to serve them well.
(There are ethical issues: It’s never OK to tell them what to say, to ask them to only say good things, or compensate them.)
They’ll be happy to help. They’ll be glad you asked, and they’ll feel a little guilty that they didn’t do more to help you earlier.
In an ideal world, we’d all rally to support our friends. But most people would rather complain.
Instead of fighting the complainers, focus on the happy, positive people.